Hi GrammaSquaw78,
If you are needing neighbours you can find others also needing them in the following thread. Click the link and it will take you there. The newest requests are on the last few pages >>
http://r1.slashkey.com/forum/showthread.php?t=391198
Do not reply to any post in there as they will not see it. All you do is click their link in their post and it will take you to their Facebook profile where you can send them a friend request. After accepting, you will then be able to send them a neighbour request
You can also make your own request for neighbours there. Read the first post on the first page to see what to include in your post.