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Originally Posted by mbcashman
I have a Super Neighbor who not only shows on MY neighbor list and icon bar at the bottom of my screen, However, I am totally absent from their neighbor list, in fact it shows me as a non-neighbor who needs reminded. They have cleaned the memcache several times and cleared their cookies, and yet I still don't show as a neighbor. Why?
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Hi mbcashman,
The neighbour requests works 2 ways. To be mutual neighbours you each have to send a request and you both have to accept it.
As you have them on your own neighbour bar that means that they have accepted the request that you sent to them, and that one has worked fine.
As you are not showing up on their Neighbours bar and it's showing them you need reminding then that means either you need to accept the neighbour request that they sent to you, or that when you accepted it the request didn't work.
Ask them to check how many neighbours they currently have. If they are close to their own maximum then that is a possible cause of the request not working when you try to accept it.
The average amount of neighbours for most users can be between 80 to 110 but that really depends on lengths of ids. Some users can have a few more than 110 neighbours. What can also happen when they are close to their limit is that they may have space for shorter length id but a longer one won't fit, which would require removing a current neighbour to make more space in the database to add a neighbour with a longer id.
If they are within those limits ask them to cancel the request and send you a new request. They also need to check the small embedded window that will show up and see if it's showing "empty response". If it is showing them that then that's a current issue with Facebook and may be why either you are not receiving the neighbour request or that when you accept it, it doesn't work.
If you get the neighbour request, when you accept it please also check if you see a small embedded window with empty response. If you do that is the same FB issue.